Please Help Me to Get My Ex Girl Back - Will a Letter Help?

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Writing a letter to your ex can be a good or bad thing; it depends how you write it and what you write. But if you are endlessly thinking about how to get my ex girl back, then you need to take action if you want to get her back. Before you launch into writing a full on love letter, hold up. We have to establish a few things first?

How long has it been since you broke up? If it is only recent then you need to give your girl quite a bit of space. Writing a letter at this stage, while things are still so fresh, might push her away. So don't make any contact with her for at least a month. This will give you both "thinking" space and your ex will most likely start to feel that emptiness that you are going through.

I don't know why you broke up. Do you? If you don't then really use this time constructively. You need to think about something you might have done or not done. Maybe your ex told you. Have you taken it to heart? Are you prepared to make changes? Sometimes changes are not easy to make because we have formed habits. Also pride gets in the way, but if you are seriously wanting to end those tormenting thoughts of how to get my ex girl back, you shouldn't hesitate to make these personal changes.

At the end of the day, not everything was your fault, but obviously something you did set this whole break up off. So you might have to be the one who makes the initial changes.

This is why writing a letter can come in handy. Emotions can get out of hand when you talk, so write a one page letter letting her know how you're doing. This letter isn't meant to get you back together, it's meant to get her thinking of you.

Say something like you're writing because you wanted to let her know how you're doing, spending time with old friends, you understand why the relationship ended and you're sorry for that, you hope she's doing well, and you value her friendship.

It's important not to mention anything about getting back together. This letter is going to get her thinking about you, and she's going to start evaluating the relationship and probably realize that yes things can work between you two.

You're starting over from square one, so do your best to be her friend and impress her like you used to. You have to build some sort of a foundation, you can't jump blindly back into a full-blown relationship or you're going to end up just like you did before.

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This article was published on 2010/04/01
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